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When a full time traveller just wants to go home; the thruths of full-time travel

by Victor Eekhof
Full time traveller

So you’ve decided to take a gap year after getting your degree, or maybe in between two jobs. You flew to Australia, New Zealand and/or South-East Asia to go backpacking for a couple of months. It was amazing, and you feel a strong need to travel again. Heck, you wouldn’t even mind traveling for a whole year. Or maybe two. Or even to become a full time traveller! Sound familiar? It definitely does to me.

I was 24 and I had officially discovered traveling. My dream was to buy a single ticket to anywhere and to never return to The Netherlands again. Now, almost 10 years later, having traveled intensely for four 6+ month periods, my perception of the often heard “dream” of being a full time traveller has been shaped rigorously. It was about time for me to write this article.

Full time travel as the ultimate goal

What does “full time traveller” really mean? To me, it meant staying on the road for as long as I could. Perhaps even forever! I would move from place to place, not staying in one place too long as it would inevitably get boring after a while. If I could live 6 months out of a backpack, then why not a year, or 2, or 5? Behold, my first misconception: continuous travel is the ultimate goal.

full time traveller Australia

Me In Sydney on my first 6 month trip, still thinking that becoming a full time traveller was my ultimate goal

The first time I started doubting this theory was on my second longer-term trip, where I traveled from Alaska to Antarctica. The trip lasted 8 months and because of the large number of countries I planned to visit (16, mostly over land) I was traveling faster than usual. After about 6 months, with a trip to Antarctica still on the itinerary, I caught myself thinking: “I wish I could just crash on a couch for a couple of days with my mates”. I quickly discarded the feeling, deeming it to be absurd. Since, you know, “I was living the dream”, right?

Continuous travel for 6+ months made me appreciate the beauty around me less. A bold statement, I know. Have you ever experienced the feeling of “I can’t see another temple!” or “oh, another waterfall?”. That’s what I’m talking about. When traveling becomes too much of a nagging routine, I feel that one should stop traveling for a while and regain their day-to-day appreciation. Or, alternatively, fly to a place that is the opposite of where you are. I guess you can have too much of a good thing.

Revelation 1: your mind gets tired after 6 months of intense travel

So too long and too intense isn’t the holy grail. Then what is? Working and traveling simultaneously perhaps? To figure out how that would make me feel I took the opportunity of living in Sweden for a short period (2 months) while working for a Dutch digital agency. I visited my old friend Magnus, and joined his “Collective Sunshine”. All I needed to bring to Sweden was a laptop and some clothes, so that was pretty convenient.

A travelling slave of society

You probably have a friend that is allowed to travel for work. He or she is in China one week and in New York the other. The thing they usually don’t tell you is that “working abroad” often means sitting on a 13-hour flight and checking into a soul-less hotel on day one, having a full day of (boring) meetings and/or trainings on day two and flying back on the same flight the morning after. If you’re lucky you’ll get an extra day to walk around town like a zombie, but more often you’re expected in the local office again the day after, jetlag or not.

Freelance work while traveling

It’s a great day to explore, but I have to finish this project!

Then there’s freelance work. As I mentioned before, for a long time I thought that traveling and working at the same time would be my dream. I would build a couple of websites here and there and live like a king in a country with a cheap currency. To give this a try, I moved to Sweden while working on a freelance assignment for a Dutch agency. “But Sweden and cheap currency don’t match!”, you might think. True, but in my case, I didn’t have to pay rent and I had access to a fully-stocked kitchen and a nearby Lidl supermarket, which made my experience a lot cheaper.

Collective Sunshine Sweden

The house with 12 bedrooms called Collective Sunshine in Stockholm, Sweden. I spent 2 enjoyable months here.

Although I really enjoyed my time there and would definitely do it again, there were a couple of interesting findings on living abroad:

You will have to re-invent your daily routines

When living abroad you will have to re-invent your daily routines. When are you most productive? Are you a morning person or a night owl? Will you eat healthy or binge on fast-food? When you’re working abroad, there’s an opportunity to review all your habits and create a structure that works best for you.

How will you deal with the large amounts of idle time?

You will have a lot of idle time, a lot of it alone (if you fly there solo). Does that drive you crazy or does it boost your level of concentration? When there is too much idle time, poisonous questions like “I’m living my dream, so why am I bored?” arise. The challenge is to fill in this idle time with things that excite you or teach you new skills. Since a lot of these things will cost ya, it’s good to have some cash for ‘excitement reasons’ on your bank account.

Revelation 2: when there is too much idle time, poisonous questions like “I’m living my dream, so why am I bored?” arise.

Working remotely means being available in a different timezone

Don’t think your life will be all fun and games when abroad, your boss can expect you to be available for most of the day for (remote) meetings or status updates. It wasn’t much of a problem in my case, but I can imagine that a big time-zone difference can severely mess up your work/leisure balance.

After finishing my initial freelance assignment things went a bit quiet, and anxiety started to kick in. Should I be looking for a new job? Combine this with the before mentioned poisonous idle time and you’ll end up with an underlying feeling of worry.

Not all countries have great wifi, which can lead to endless frustration. Especially when your boss back home is a micromanager and expects daily status updates via Skype video calls. Nomadlist.com is a great resource for finding countries with just the right balance of living costs, wifi, weather, and safety.

Your hosts abroad have their own lives

In your new home abroad the people around you will continue to live their own lives, with their own friends, errands, and activities. If you’re lucky they’ll let you join some of them, but it’s a bit unfair to expect them to fill your time with social activities.

You might be lucky enough to know a couple of people in the city you’re moving to, but mostly you’ll have to make new friends. Depending on the country, that can be quite the challenge. Think about it, where did you meet most of your friends? School? Through a mutual friend? At a course? You’d definitely have to put some extra effort in.

Why your friends and family matter

Although they might not always want to listen to all your travel stories, your friends and family are a constant factor while traveling. They are often the embodiment of “home”, living their lives in the surroundings you grew up. I was shocked to find that after my first 6-month trip away from home, where I traveled intensely through Australia, New Zealand, and South East Asia, not much at all has changed back home. A couple of new buildings, a couple of new friends of friends, but my close friends were still my close friends and my family was still my family, with all their quirks and habits. I, on the other side, felt like I’ve been warped 5 years into the future as I developed new skills, picked up new languages and made loads of new (intercontinental) friends.

Revelation 3: I was taking my best friends and my family (in this case my mum) for granted

That doesn’t mean traveling makes you a happier person per sé. Something I learned from my travels it is that every person has their own way of trying to achieve happiness and that there is no “good” or “bad” way. Quite often, however, I spot travelers putting themselves above people that haven’t traveled at all, or not as much as they did. Although I think this is a negative trend that deserves to be written about, I will save it for another article.

Back to the topic of friends and family. Somewhere on my third 6+ month trip, I was overcome by a powerful feeling: I was taking my best friends and my family for granted (in this case my mum, since she was my only parent growing up). I assumed that they would always just be there, even if I didn’t really put much effort in to sustain the relationship. Honestly, it kind of threw me off. Then and there I made a promised to never take her for granted and to make sure to let them know more often how much she means to me. The same counts for your friends: taking them for granted might backfire badly one day.

Long-distance acquaintances

Ever tried to sustain a long-distance relationship? How did that work out? I’ve definitely heard a couple of successful stories (including my own) but also heard many stories of people growing apart after a while. I feel like making friends in foreign countries works in a similar fashion. When you travel socially (avoiding hotels and mass-tourism targeted tours) you are inevitably going to make new friends or at least some people you wouldn’t mind seeing again. If you’re lucky they might come visit you in your hometown, or you’ll be able to meet again on a trip abroad. If not, well, there’s always memories, photos, and Facebook. I’ve even experienced the “friends on endorfine” syndrome (which I just made up).

When you meet someone while traveling your perception of the people you meet can be a bit skewed. The beautiful rainforest, the amazing street food you share or the loud hostel you spend a night in together might make you blind for the fact that the person you’re traveling with might be a bit of an asshole. Once you meet again back on your turf, that might suddenly become clear. Awkward…

Becoming a full time traveller by striking the perfect balance

After experimenting with different ways of traveling I have busted the bubble on a couple of my dreams. I’ve learned that endless (continuous) travel and working while traveling isn’t what I should be aiming for. So what is the ideal situation I should strive? Two words: mindful travel. Now I’m not a spiritual person, and I don’t necessarily associate mindfulness with spine-wrecking yoga poses. To me, mindfulness is doing something that has your full attention. In terms of traveling it translates to eliminating any distractions from your “regular” life to focus fully on exploring the unknown. I’m talking phones, laptops, people you don’t want to talk to and doing work for work’s sake.

Revelation 4: I’ve learnt that endless (continuous) travel and working while traveling isn’t what I should be aiming for. So what is the ideal situation I should strive? Two words: mindful travel

Although I do travel with a phone, I make sure it’s a 1995 Nokia with a battery life of 7 days and a local sim-card (for emergencies), which pretty much eliminates any unwanted incoming phone calls. I also travel with a laptop, but only to store pictures, write articles or watch movies on excruciating 24+ hour bus rides. The imminent lack of internet facilities makes sure I won’t get stuck in the dreadful world of social media.

To be able to strike the perfect balance, I will have to work intensely in my hometown for a period of time to save up money. As I don’t have a wealthy family to fall back on, I have to hustle my way through with freelance assignments and office jobs. When you have a (financial) goal that will allow you to travel mindfully in the future, the burden of work suddenly becomes less heavy. The ideal situation for me would be to have the stability of a full-time job but the opportunity to take mini-retirements of 3-6 months every other year. Traveling truly gives you a fresh perspective on life and allows you to reset your mind to focus on the things you love and that excite you.

Mindful traveling full time traveller

Mindful traveling doesn’t necessarily mean being a full time traveller

Everything is possible. Now what?

You wouldn’t believe the positive energy that was flowing through my veins after I’ve completed my trip from Alaska to Antarctica. It was the craziest thing I could think of a year before, and I simply set out the route and did it! Think of the possibilities! I could become an astronaut and travel into space, I could set up a board game cafe in a refurbished sea container (both are ideas that I’ve worked out on paper), or literally anything else! It took me a couple of months to realize that yes, there is a world of possibilities out there, but it also takes a bucketload of focus, hard work and/or money to achieve most of it. Slowly anxiety started creeping in again: what is the thing I want most? How do I start?

Victor and Josh doing Pole2Pole4Charity

With Josh from GoTravelYourWay.com, getting ready for the Pole2Pole4Charity trip that blew my mind.

After starting up a couple of projects which failed I now know: there isn’t such a thing as a single magical goal that will make everything awesome. Life is about failing, learning from it and doing things better next time. You will have to embrace change and learn to appreciate the little things in life. It might take years, but if you truly develop this habit your level of happiness (however you might determine it) will rise. And in the end, that’s all that really matters, right?

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Nikoleta Míchalová

I am not a full-time traveller so I didn’t know what it really means. I am considering becoming one at some point in my life so I am glad that you were so honest in your article and revealed pluses and minuses.


Nicely written article. My dream and passion has always been traveling. However I have never dreamed about full time travel. I don’t even desire about traveling 6 months in a row. I would prefer six 1-month trips or twelve 2-weeks trips. While long term travel has its alluring elements it has more downsides for me: 1. In one long trip you tend to roam in one region. Of course you can combine several different regions, but it cannot be as “efficient” as doing separate trips to separate areas 2. You will get bored. If not to traveling itself you will… Read more »

Magnus Danielson

Hi Victor, loved the article and you got a lot of good points. Being able to focus completely on the task at hand (be it travel or working) is definitely important. For me I do feel that I have a balance even when I am working though… at times there is a lot of things that I need to fix with my house, and other times it can go weeks with very little interaction. Regarding your magical goal that will make everything awesome (or not) I read a quote a few days that I really like. Good decisions comes from… Read more »

Jeff Fressco

Great post!
“Something I learnt from my travels it is that every person has their own way of trying to achieve happiness, and that there is no “good” or “bad” way.” As a non-traveller I totally agree with this! The think I wanted to add: Focus on your life, don’t compare your life to another, enjoy what you do and love the people and things around you…. but still I wish I travelled the world like you 😛


Josh Cahill

Wow Victor, that’s exactly the way I feel. Great article.

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